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July 9, 2012 / menssexualhealthinfo

Girls guide to Anal Sex

Anal sex can be fun for the girls too.

Women who don’t enjoy anal sex, she says, are probably doing it wrong.  Dr. Hilda Hutcherson loves sex toys, believes the world is much too pornophobic, and thinks more women should give anal sex a try. In other words, she’s the gynecologist every guy wants his girlfriend to meet.

I’m pretty sure the butt wasn’t made to be penetrated. Is anal sex bad for you?

You’re not going to hurt yourself if you follow the rules.

  • ENJOY – You’ve got to want it.
  • LUBE – You’ve got to use lots of lubricant.
  • SLOW – And you’ve got to take it slowly.
  • RELAX …. goes along with slow,, take your time, do it only when YOU feel in the mood (sometimes it’s just not the right time for you – listen to your body)
  • STIMULATE … yourself or let him do it but keep some stimultion of your clit goin the entire time. Helps to Relax and let things open up.
  • TIME – not only slow during the sessions, but it may take many tries before you can get him all in. Don’t try to get all in the first time if you’re not comfortable. Just try the head inside for the first time or two. Work up to takn deeper.
  • TRUST – gotta trust your guy. If you aren’t sure he won’t just try to cram it all up your behind cause he’s so excited, well, I’d say don’t even start.

How much, exactly, is a lot of lube? 
You need A LOT. You’ve got to rub it all over the penis. Then, using your fingers, put the lubricant around the anal opening and up inside.

Is Astroglide is good for anal. 
Glycerin-based lubes like Astroglide don’t last long enough. A silicone-based lubricant is going to be a lot better for anal sex. If you use one of the others, you have to stop, put more on, reenter… it’s just a mess.

Anal sex is probably a messy endeavor anyway, right?
No, no! I wouldn’t say so, but everybody thinks you’re going to have feces all over the place.  For anal play, use an anal toy: it should be the right shape and should be yours.

A person’s sex toy is sacred, and only they should decide how, where, when and upon whom it is used. If the toy is porous, fecal bacteria can get lodged in the microscopic nooks and crannies, potentially leading to a nasty infection for her, no matter how long you scrubbed it with anti-bacterial soap.

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